Courage

As a rule, I don’t think I have ever discovered any real wisdom in a fortune cookie before. However, earlier this week at lunch I opened one and read something which seemed quite profound. The message on the little paper read, “Courage is a virtue, but it is also the catalyst that proves all the other virtues when they are needed most.” A simple thought, but it’s one which certainly warrants further consideration. Whatever our other virtues may be the test of their worth, and their actual manifestation within us, always comes down to how we live them out in the pressure cooker of real life. Action is the litmus test of virtue. Are we loyal, truthful, pure, patient, humble, faithful or selfish? We can say or think whatever we like. Over time, however, life has a way of reducing us to the lowest common denominator of our character as we try to live out our values in the real world. Will we stand by a friend or tell the whole truth when we realize how much the consequences can hurt us? Are we patient on the freeway even when we’re late, and in a hurry? Can we remain pure and upright when serious temptation comes our way? Real virtues are always tested and proven in the refining fires of family problems, peer pressure, work performance, social insecurities, illness, financial difficulties, addictive tendencies and the like. That is when courage comes into play. As the cookie said, courage assists all of the other virtues. And we need real courage, in varying degrees, to pick our way through the mine field of choices and responses that every day presents us with.

Usually we think of courage in terms of the “big” things like a fireman rushing into burning building to save someone or a soldier advancing under enemy fire. Those examples are absolutely courageous, even heroic, and they happen every day in real life … just not to most of us. Most of us live quiet little lives that, at first glance, don’t seem to require much courage. I have certainly never had the opportunity to exhibit heroic courage in such situations as the aforementioned. However, we all face opportunities each day that require courage to live out our virtues. And if we aren’t brave enough to make those choices it slowly erodes our virtuous character. So here’s my wish for you today to find the courage to make all the choices that come your way.